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Jasmijn Dorant

You've built a life
that looks right.
Yet your soul knows
it's not enough.

You are here because something in you knows there is more. More truth. More freedom. More of yourself. The version of you that doesn't have to prove anything. That just is. Unfiltered, unguarded, alive.

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Reclaim your inner authority

Jasmijn Dorant
You found this for a reason

I see you.


You carry so much. The roles, the responsibilities, the expectations. The weight of showing up, day after day, holding it all together. And you do it so well.

But somewhere along the way, the aliveness slipped away. You function. You deliver. You perform. And inside — you feel the gap between the life you live and the life that truly excites you.

You don't need to carry it alone anymore. You don't need to keep proving. You need the space to feel. To breathe. To remember who you are beneath everything you do.

I can help you with that. Not by doing it for you — this is yours to reclaim. But by holding the space. By witnessing. By creating the safety your body needs to finally let go.

Transformation begins when you feel safe enough to come home to yourself. That is what we create here.


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Jasmijn Dorant
Is this you?

You know it's time.

Time to stop living on autopilot.

Time to trust yourself instead of proving yourself.

Time to remember who you are beneath all the doing.

You might be here because:

01

You have built a life that looks right from the outside — and you feel a growing gap between that life and who you actually are inside.

02

You are tired of pushing, controlling, performing. You sense there is a calmer, freer way to live — and you want to find it.

03

Something has shifted — after a crisis, a loss, a moment of clarity — and you know you cannot go back to the way things were. You are ready for what comes next.

04

You feel a spark of curiosity about who you really are beneath all the roles, the expectations, the achievements. You want to meet that person.

05

You are ready to take full ownership. Not to be fixed or saved — but to be deeply witnessed, and to live the life that is truly yours.

The Shifts

What begins to shift
when you stop performing
and start living.

You don't need to be fixed. You need space to feel, to breathe, to remember. This is what you are moving toward.

Calm in your body

You feel at ease with yourself — not performing ease, actually feeling it. Safety and calm become your baseline, not something you have to reach for.

Trust in yourself and in life

You stop waiting for something to go wrong. You begin to trust that you are provided for — by life, by your own inner knowing, by something larger than fear.

Your own power and creativity

You feel your uniqueness — not as something to manage but as your greatest gift. You get excited about what you are here to create and contribute.

Freedom from lack

The constant undercurrent of not enough — not enough time, love, success, money — begins to dissolve. You feel, in your body, that you already have what you need.

Inner authority

You stop looking outside for permission, direction, or approval. Your own inner voice becomes the one you trust most. You lead your life from the inside out.

Excitement for what's next

You feel genuinely curious and excited about your next chapter — not because everything will be perfect, but because you know you are the architect of what comes next.

My Role

I guide you toward
your inner authority.

To the part of you that has always known the truth. Your truth.

I hold the space. I witness. I guide.

You reclaim what's already yours.

Jasmijn Dorant

"The moment I stopped running and turned toward myself — everything changed."

My Story

I know what disconnection feels like — even when everything looks fine.


I was adopted and placed on a plane at three months old. Korean-born, Dutch-raised. I was raised by my mother alone after my father died when I was young.

I built a life that looked exactly right from the outside. A career. A family. All the markers of success.

But inside, I was on autopilot. Performing. Not really present.

I began doing my own inner work. Slowly, I started to feel what I had been managing away.

Then I flew back to Korea — alone — to meet the country and the story I had spent years running from.

Standing on that ground, something shifted. I felt it in my body: every experience — the adoption, the loss, the building of a life between worlds — had been preparing me. What once felt like my wound, became my power.

I realized that I am the architect of my own life. That I am worthy — not because of what I built, but simply because I exist.

That knowing, that way of being is what I guide others toward.


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Work With Me

What I Offer

Deep transformational work through one-on-one journeys.
Constellations — family and business — to reveal what's been hidden.

01

The Initiation

A 3-4 month one-on-one journey. Six Soul Sessions of 90 minutes with personal support from me between sessions (voice messages) as you integrate the work. I work with what you need — depth coaching, somatic work, family constellations, intuitive guidance. No single modality. Pure presence. Available online or in-person in Haarlem.

1-on-1 By Application
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02

The Becoming

A 6 month one-on-one journey. Twelve Soul Sessions of 90 minutes with personal support from me between sessions (voice messages) as you integrate what surfaces. For those in a major transition who need the full arc — through the fire and into building something entirely new from the inside out. Available online or in-person in Haarlem.

1-on-1 By Application
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03

Family Constellation Workshops

Family constellations bring hidden patterns to the surface — the dynamics you inherited, the roles you've been playing, the conflicts that keep repeating. Are you ready to see the truth? Group workshops in Haarlem. Open enrollment.

In Person Group
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04

Business Constellations (On-Site)

Uncover hidden dynamics in your organization — leadership blocks, succession issues, team conflicts, high employee turnover, strategic stagnation. I come to your location and facilitate a constellation that makes the invisible visible.

On-Site By Inquiry
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Free 30-Minute Intake Call

Before we begin, we meet. I want to understand where you are and what you're seeking. You want to feel if my work feels right for you. No pressure, no obligation — just presence and honesty. If we both feel the resonance, we move forward.

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The Process

My intention for you
when we work together.

I

You Feel Seen

Truly witnessed — not the version of you that performs, but who you actually are. Everything begins to shift from here.

II

You Feel Safe

Your nervous system learns what safety feels like. From that ground, you can meet what you've been carrying — with curiosity instead of fear.

III

You Rewrite

Your story transforms. What you have lived becomes the source of your power and wisdom. You begin to see yourself as the architect of what comes next.

IV

You Lead

From your own inner authority. From a frequency so clear that your outer world begins to respond. And then — you don't need me anymore. That is the whole point.

What People Experience

In their own words.

"

Jasmijn is the real deal. I have rarely encountered someone who can stay present and guide people through the most difficult and painful things with so much courage and strength. And yet that is precisely where liberation and true breakthrough originate. I came to Jasmijn when I was on the verge of a major breakthrough in my business and running into intense fear and anxious thoughts that at times left me hostage and kept me in freeze. Her strength lies not so much in all the knowledge she has about trauma and liberation — though that too is deeply valuable — but rather in the fact that she has personally lived through everything she is 'preaching'. That gives her work and approach a depth you cannot fake and cannot learn from a book or a course. On top of that, she has a unique mix of groundedness and gentleness, which makes the sessions consistently relevant and deep, but never harsh or confronting in a harmful way. After a few months of working together, I now make big and courageous decisions in my business — without that intense fear, but with calm, clarity and trust. That same calm, clarity and trust radiates into my relationships, and even my health: my vitals have never been better. I discovered a level of overall wellbeing I hadn't thought possible. Give yourself the gift of her guidance. You won't regret it.

— Nathalie
"

Receiving a constellation with Jasmijn was a deeply meaningful experience for me. From the beginning, I felt welcomed in my vulnerability and supported throughout the process. I brought a very sensitive and difficult topic, and the way the constellation was facilitated allowed me to feel safe, seen, and respected during every stage of the experience. What stood out most to me was her presence. She remained attentive, connected, and intuitively attuned both to the field and to the participants. At no point did I feel rushed, judged, or emotionally alone. The process was guided with sensitivity, groundedness, and trust, which made it possible for deeper movements to emerge naturally. What I appreciated most was that the facilitation never felt intrusive or forceful. There was a genuine respect for the timing of the process and for what was unfolding in the moment. That created a strong sense of emotional safety, especially while working with such a vulnerable topic. I left the experience deeply touched by both the constellation itself and the quality of facilitation that held it. I would wholeheartedly recommend her work to anyone seeking a grounded, safe, and genuinely supportive constellation experience.

— Natashe
"

I participated as a question holder in the constellation on 10 May 2026 in Haarlem. I had no prior experience with family constellations or systemic work and approached the session with an open mind. The session turned out to be carefully structured. At the start, Jasmijn guided us through a meditation, which quickly created a warm atmosphere and invited participants to connect with their inner world. Throughout the constellation, Jasmijn guided us with love and calm through the various patterns. She has the ability to subtly mirror the themes that participants brought — both consciously and unconsciously. The experience surprised me in a positive way. Coming from an academic background, I am used to approaching topics rationally. The family constellation offered a valuable new perspective. During the session I gained insight into emotional and relational patterns that were not within my conscious awareness. That was sometimes confronting — but in my case often also positive and healing. I would recommend attending a constellation with Jasmijn to anyone. Even if you are down-to-earth and tend to approach questions through reason and analysis, Jasmijn can — also because of her background — guide you in an accessible way into a different mode of perception. Give yourself this gift!

— Elisa
Jasmijn Dorant
About Jasmijn

Guide. Mirror.
Still becoming.


I work at the intersection of depth coaching, somatic work, and systemic work (constellations). I have completed trainings in family constellations and business constellations and I am in the third year of the professional training in core energetics — a form of body psychotherapy.

My background includes over 13 years as a practising white-collar crime attorney — my own firm for more than four years — and motherhood to two neurodivergent boys. I was born in South Korea and raised in the Netherlands. My husband is from New Zealand. I have lived between worlds my entire life — and that experience shapes how I hold space.

I am deeply empathic and highly attuned. I create the safety that allows the deepest truth to surface. I am a mirror — sharp, but compassionate. I show you what you haven't been able to see alone.

I see myself as an advocate — not for your soul, but for the truth. I guide you toward becoming the advocate for your own soul. To trust yourself. To stop waiting for permission.

My work is complete when you can listen to your own soul and trust what it says.


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A Message For You

You found this
for a reason.

You are done living half-alive. Done waiting for the right moment, the right circumstances.

What you are looking for is already in you — not broken, not missing, just hidden beneath years of adapting, performing and surviving.

You are ready to reclaim it — your truth, your freedom, your life.

You don't need permission. You just need to take the first step.

There is no limit to who you can become. Only the stories you were told.

Dream bigger. You are the architect of what comes next.



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